ABSTRACTBoth theory and research suggest that obese women may have relatively poor social relationships even if their self‐reports about their relationships do not differ from the reports of nonobese women. Seventy‐seven obese and 78 nonobese women completed self‐report measures of social anxiety, social self‐esteem, social competence, social network size, and perceived social support from friends and family. Friends and coworkers also rated these women on the same measures. The self‐reports of obese and nonobese women did not differ significantly on any of these social measures, and ratings from friends and coworkers of obese women were not different from ratings of nonobese women by friends and coworkers. These results suggest that obese women may be able to overcome prejudice against obese people in their relationships wi